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I Can Make You Thin!

September 19, 2008 · Leave a Comment

Well not me actually, but that is the claim of Paul McKenna in his book entitled . . . . . you guessed it . . . “I Can Make You Thin”.  Now this book has been around for a while but it is surprising how many people do not know about it.  It is not about counting calories, exercising, matching food type to body types, healthy eating or even about what you actually eat.

There’s not much left then, what is it about Charlie?

I’m glad you asked me that!

Have you noticed how some people seem to eat whatever they like and however much they like and still stay thin?  There’s a word for people that.  It’s “bastard”!

Only kidding.

Some people have a faster metabolism and get away with eating what most of us can only envy.  But although some people may have naturally fast or naturally slot metabolisms, it can be sped up.  This is where my mate Paul McKenna comes in. 

First of all, Paul is a hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner and lifestyle coach.  He is famous in the UK, but I don’t know how well known he is in other countries.  His reasoning is that with many diets and eating patterns, our body can react accordingly.  If we overeat and don’t exercise then obviously we are likely to gain weight.  But also, when we don’t eat enough, or if we skip meals or go hungry to keep down the calories, then our bodies tend to think that there is a shortage on and go into a kind of “famine” mode.  That means that the body will store whatever it can because it does not know when it will be fed again.  Obviously this is a biological response, not a mental one.  This means that the more people diet and the more that they cut back, then the more that there bodies work against them and slow down the metabolism and stores what it can in the form of fat.

Paul’s approach is to re-train our eating habits so that our bodies think that there is an abundance of food whenever it wants it, so it does not need to store it as fat.  The metabolism will then speed up and burn it off more quickly.  His approach will initially sound like plain common sense.   But as the old saying goes, common sense isn’t very common and most of don’t do it.

Part 1, Eat Whenever You Feel Hungry
This will immediately feel strange to somebody used to missing meals or between meal snacks, but if you want your body to speed up its metabolism, then you need it to feel that food is abundant. 

Part 2, Stop When Full
Sounds obvious doesn’t it, but I for one was brought up with the idea of “don’t waste your food” and I was always encouraged to finish my plate (even if I became stuffed).  Paul’s mother used to say to him, there are people starving in India who would be glad to have that food, to which he comments, “so it will make them happier if I’m obese will it”?

Eating until we are over-full contributes a lot to weight gain; even if we only eat once a day (especially if we only eat once a day – see Part 1).

Part 3, Eat Consciously
Many of us rush our food.  Slow down.  When we eat fast, the brain releases endorphins which make us feel good.  That is the real pleasure that many people who eat fast get from their food . . . not the taste.  Stop what you are doing, don’t eat while watching TV or doing your work and make yourself conscious of what you are eating.  Put your knife and fork down between mouthfuls.

When people start to do this, they realise that a lot of the junk food that they eat doesn’t actually taste that good and they start to actually prefer the taste of food that is good for them.  The body is very intuitive if you take the time to actually listen to it.

When the stomach becomes full there is a delay in it signaling this to the brain.  If you eat fast there is already more food on its way down before the brain knows that you are full, so you will end up bloated.  When you eat consciously (slowly), the stomach has the time to send messages to the brain to let it know that you are full, so you can stop eating sooner, before you become bloated.

Part 4, Eating Disorders
Paul also advices on how to overcome disorders such as binge eating and comfort eating.  I will confess that I am not so familiar with these problems not being a sufferer myself, but it is all in the book. 

I am a fan of Paul McKenna and would really recommend his book for anybody wanting to lose weight.  As I have mentioned in previous posts, until recently I was a carer and had a very busy life.  As such I rushed my meals so as to be able to meet the next need.  From now on I will be making an effort to apply the above principles.  The book comes with a hypnosis CD to help you as well.

For further information on weight loss matters, see the HealthyHabits blog which is very informative but with a touch of humour.

Categories: Health · Self Development
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Rising Sea Levels: Action Needed Now

September 18, 2008 · 2 Comments

For the first time in human history, it is said to be possible to circumnavigate the North Pole. 

So what?

Well all the water from that melted ice has to go somewhere.  Sea levels are rising.  

Yeah yeah, read it in the papers, seen a documentary, hasn’t changed my life!

Well are you going to wait until it does effect you before you take it seriously?  The vast majority of the human race live on the big continental land masses where there is plenty of space (now).  But what if you lived on an island that is only just above sea level?  Where would you get fresh water from as the sea claims more and more of your homeland and moves further up your rivers and into your lakes.  What would happen to your crops as high tides flood your farmlands poisoning them with Salt?  

Where would you go?

You can jump into a boat and sail to another country, but would they accept you?  You have no refugee status as your country was not at war.  There has already been many ”boat people” in the past who were rejected by the countries that they fled to.  Many arguments were made that they were just “economic refugees” leaving for a better life in another country.  If an island is completely flooded leaving all crops and water poisoned, can you see other governments being unwilling to submit their own tax payers (voters) to the extra burden and therefore resorting to the same “economic refugee” argument.  After all if the island is still there, aid packages could cost less in the long run and distract from the critics until the issue goes quiet.

This is the possible future facing Islands around the world from the Maldives to Papua New Guinea.  They are already seeing their homeland shrink.  Salt poisoning of water and crops is not just a possible future, it is their present reality.  It is happening now and they are already drawing up evacuation plans.

That is why a number of small island are calling on the UN Security Council to address climate change with the same urgency as it would treat a war.  They are however meeting fierce resistance from the main polluters, so they are looking for as much support as they can get.  That is why they are asking people from all over the world to sign an on-line petition

If the sea continues to rise then many more countries will be flooded on every continent.  Countries as diverse as Holland and Bangladesh are quite flat, but densely populated.  There would be mass migrations across borders as people seek out the higher ground.  There is bound to be fighting as some try to obtain higher ground and others try to hold on to it.

Much of the world farmland is on flat low lying plains that would be easily flooded and lost, but there would still be as many people to feed (initially).

Many big cities and industry are based by river estuaries as they give good access to shipping lanes.  They too would be vulnerable, creating economic havoc and displacing many millions of people.

This petition is not just about the peoples of the small islands, it is about all of us, they just happen to be in the front line.  We must support them now before the front line (shore line) moves to us.

Please support the small islands and sign the petition, then send this link to your friends and ask them to do the same.

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Coping With Bereavement

September 5, 2008 · 2 Comments

As per my last posting, I have recently lost my partner, Michele, to cancer.  3 days later I also lost my father who passed peacefully in his sleep at the age 89.  People have different ways of dealing with loss and I hope that this posting might help others going through the same thing to find some comfort.  Most religions or forms of spirituality believe that the soul lives on, or that you are reincarnated. 

When I was very young, I remember our local priest, Father Pierson telling us that before a baby is born, it is warm secure and comfortable inside its mothers womb.  During birth, when it is being pushed out of this safe environment, it must feel like death is coming.  It is the end of life as the baby knows it.  But instead it is being born into a much wider world to grow far beyond the limitations of the womb. 

So it is explained Father Pierson, that when our soul leaves our earthly body, it feels like death is coming, but you are really being born into an even wider world of far greater possibilities.

I also like the story told by the famous American motivational speaker and author, Anthony Robins.  He relays how his son came home upset one day because a school friend had passed away.  Anthony Robins told his son not to feel too bad, because his friend had become a “butterfly” now.  The son stopped; “what do you mean, a butterfly”?

Anthony Robins explained that when a caterpillar starts to change into a butterfly it goes into a cocoon.  To the outside world, the cocoon looks dead.  But the caterpillar is not dying, it is transforming into something better and more beautiful.  He continued that his sons friend had also transformed into something better and more powerful, and though we can no longer see him, he is still there and can see us.

I told this story when I said a few words at Michele’s funeral.  She used to teach dance and always told her girls to smile when dancing.  I told those there that every they saw a butterfly, they should think of Michele . . . . and smile.

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Passing Of My Partner, Michele: Lessons Learnt

September 5, 2008 · Leave a Comment

I have mentioned a number of times on this blog that I am the carer for my partner Michele who has cancer.  Sadly, Michele passed away on 25th August after fighting it for over 2 years.  She was a very brave and remarkable women who had to make enormous sacrifices in her life to protect her loved ones; but that is a story for another time. 

I have previously written about various cancer therapies and diets, some of which we have tried.  Several well meaning friends commented after Michele’s passing, “if only she had taken the chemotherapy”.  Well Michele did take herseptin, which is supposed to be a gentle alternative and even that made her violently ill, so I am not sure that she would have coped with the chemo anyway.

On the surface Michele did not appear to be a natural candidate for cancer.  She did not smoke, seldom drank alcohol, regularly exercised and took supplements.  However, Michele suffered enormous amounts of trauma and stress for very prolonged periods of her life.  Stress is known to be a contributing factor to cancer and when Michele was first diagnosed, she was already emotionally burnt out (adrenal fatigue).  Conventional cancer therapies and many alternative cancer therapies focus primarily on the physical, leaving out the emotional and spiritual.  We made the same mistake to a certain extent.  My very first postings on this blog was about the Hulda Clark Protocol which I concluded was very effective, but required so much work that you would need several full time carers in order to be able to do it properly.  The amount of work involved actually caused yet more stress.

I believe that despite Michele being an extremely strong women, she would have had trouble recovering from her cancer whatever treatment path she had chosen (be it conventional or alternative) because of the years of emotional damage.  If we could have a second chance, the thing that I would address first would be that emotional damage.  I would also advise anybody diagnosed with cancer who has suffered a lot of trauma, to deal with the trauma straight away (and possibly first). 

Michele hated her therapy, which caused her even more stress.  If Michele could have accepted the therapy, perhaps with an attitude of gratitude that she did at least have the choice, then I believe that she would have had a better chance of being alive now.  I don’t say this to criticise her, I say it in case it helps others in the same situation (whether following conventional or alternative therapies).  Also, in the long term, it would probably have cost us less money to address the emotional problems first as she would have probably responded better to her treatment and been a lot more co-operative in doing it.

Michele was highly respected and loved by me and by those that knew her and will be sadly missed.  I have pondered for several days as to whether I should write this or not, but I am confident that if this helps somebody in a similar position then she would want to me to write it.

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